Sunday, May 29, 2011

The Truth and Mama Mary Sunbeam

Truth

By Nahla M

I was so glad to go on this field trip. We arrived at Mama Mary’s daughter's house, and we set up a fire. We started singing in different languages and playing musical instruments. Mama Mary really helped me understand how life works and what life is about. She helped me understand that it’s not just me in this world who feels the same way.
The best thing about this trip for me was when we went in the lodge and we started saying what we felt and what we would like to get back to us. Right then I figured out that people around me were feeling the same thing. Mama Mary told me that you are the only person who could free your mind from anger, pain, and bad things. I had a great time with my friends and with Mama Mary.  Sorry if I can’t be more specific; to understand, you have to go there when you experience the lodge yourself.  Thank you so much, Mr. V, for letting me go on this trip.  It was great and an experience I will never forget. I strongly suggest that if anyone gets an opportunity to go, they should not waste it. It’s really a life-changing experience.  

Teachings of Mama Mary Sunbeam

Teachings

By Kwadwo O-K
                   
            It was such a nice and beautiful drive to Mama Mary's place in Dale City. I experienced a lot of things. Some of the things we did were that, we sat by a fire with some pieces of rocks surrounded by it. We sung a whole lot of songs in different languages. 
            I also sung my own song entitled “Rasta Rocky World.” Mama Mary is a special type of person who is kind and helps people to share their feelings. She is like a mother to everyone, and if everyone on this planet had a mother like her, the world would be a better place because she is very kind to all her children. She helped us to know how to forgive each other and how to make new friends.
             There are a lot of things that I learned from Mama Mary; she also helped us to share our thoughts and feelings with ourselves. By sharing our thoughts and our feelings, I experienced similar feelings within many different people.


Lina's Reflections and Mama Mary

Possibilities
By Lina E-B

What Mama Mary did was not impossible. She knew what was in each and every one’s heart. She knew how to reach that point of weakness and she also destroyed that wall that was between friends. She also made people speak up and show their real emotions and true feelings. Mama Mary’s trip made me really appreciate the two people that were sitting beside me for supporting me and having supported me since the time I met them, and also showed me who cares and who doesn’t. She also made me learn from this trip that it’s better to share your anger or love with someone you know that is hurting too, or at least having the same feelings, instead of by yourself, alone. Also I learned from her that I need to give a good chance to people to make them express themselves, and give the others the right opportunity and time to speak because they might have something to say that will mean so much to the heart.
In the end I would like to thank you, Mr. Van Opdorp, for letting us have this trip and for choosing the right people to join us.  Also I would like to thank Mama Mary for letting us explore each other’s feelings and thoughts and anger.  So thank you.          

Mama Mary Sunbeam and the Lodge

Peace
By Christen B
On Monday after school we all went to the art room to meet Mama Mary.  I was really excited to see her, because Mr. Van Opdorp has talked about her a lot. We were all waiting for her until she came. She started introducing herself to each one in the class room. I think she was so amazing because she talks in a special way. We did an activity with her; it was so wonderful because I actually learned something from this activity. I learned that all the people that we care about are like our relatives. I really enjoyed this activity, and I think it was really cool meeting with Mama Mary. I'm really glad I went to that meeting because I learned lots of things and one of them is to start peace beginning with myself first. 

Abdul - Healing Lodge and Mama Mary Sunbeam

Journeys
By Abdul RK

It was a great and long ride from Reston to Dale City. It was about a one-hour drive. On our way aboard the bus we took some photos, created a lot of fun and thought as we went along.  At last, we reached Dale City. Mama Mary welcomed us very warmly. She introduced us to her daughter, Strongheart.  Her daughter was also very nice and welcoming to us. After some time we sat by a fire and with some large rock placed in the middle of it. We sang different kinds of song such as “Happy Birthday” in Spanish, German, and Arabic. There were also other songs in French, reggae, Polish, and Creole. We had a lot of fun.   We also took some photos while we were sitting by the fire. Afer that we ate some food and prepared to enter the lodge. We spent a lot of time in that special place. After that, we came out and ate lunch. While we were eating Mama Mary told us to write some thank you notes to the teachers and our fellow students. We wrote them and placed the teachers’ notes in a large envelope, and the student notes in an egg, and and then we gave them all to each other. We left Dale City about 4:00pm. It was also a great ride home; some people sang songs, and some were just talking. I really didn’t want the trip to end. I had a lot of fun; I had a new experience of different cultures and traditions. I was so happy to experience it. I learned a lot of new things and met some new friends.   

Reflections on the Lodge with Mama Mary

Harmony

By Andrea C

Some experiences that touch the deepest place in our souls make us see a different perspective of life. I lived that experience with a wise woman called Mama Mary. The knowledge that was passed down from generations to generation in her culture, she shared with us to understand a little bit more about ourselves and other people around us. Moreover, I found out that some people feel the same way I feel and they don’t express it. I’ll never forget the spiritual moment I have been blessed with,. Mama Mary was able to set us free from our pain, our fear, and bad things in our life that were locked up inside us. I learned a lot from this experience where everyone was an important part in this field trip and it brought more peace and harmony in my life.
            Thank you Mr. Van Opdorp and Mama Mary.

Liz Reflects On Mama Mary Sunbeam's Lodge

Gratitude
By Liz Schenker
Dear Brother Marty,
Your mystical powers have never failed me, and today you have brought me and helped to heal those dearest to my heart.  You have always been a part of my family and always will be, but today we are closer.  Your kindness for everyone and most honest love will always stay in our hearts.  So many wonderful people and things have I met, thanks to you.  Hearing Kwadwo singing his reggae tunes and Mama Mary chanting and encouraging all of us today is resonating in my ears and is forever singing in my soul.
Up With People,
Liz

Lamine's Message to Mama Mary Sunbeam

The Circle
By Lamine K

My experience in the lodge was very interesting and memorable. Also it was very helpful for me and the other students because we had a lot of fun and we were open about our opinions. Also I think everybody that was there learned an important lesson which is to make peace with everybody. I also learned more about the Cherokee culture and Mama Mary.  I think that when we got around the fire and we sang it brought us all together no matter where we are from or what language we speak.  I enjoyed the trip mostly because it was with the people I love and care about, and that’s what made it even more special. I hope that that we do more activities with Mama Mary because she is a really wonderful person and I think we all could learn from her a lot.

Spirit Lodge: Bismeh to Mama Mary Sunbeam

Breakthroughs

By Bismeh Hameed

At the first meeting I had a lot of fun with Mama Mary because she was really nice to us and told us to write about what we felt. So after that on Saturday we went to the lodge, and while I was there I felt really good because I apologized to my friend and tried to forgive my dad for what he did to us. I was with everyone over there; I got to talk to people I didn’t know, and Mama Mary also taught us a lot of things.  One lesson that really impressed me was to believe in myself.  One thing I really liked about her was that she knows each and every thing about us, even though that was her first time meeting us. Anyways I really thank her for teaching us lots of things and making me believe in myself.

Also, I want to thank Mr. Van for bringing us to the lodge and buying pizzas for us. I really enjoyed it. My dad didn’t want me to go at the last minute, but Mr. Van sent a letter to him asking him to reconsider. As a result, I learned about something that’s going to help me in the future.

Healing Lodge Reflection (Jack, 2008) - to Mama Mary Sunbeam

Angels
By Yafei (Jack) Luo
Monday afternoon, I met Mama Mary at South Lakes for the second time. When I saw her, she was a timely person connected to everything, and she used her free time to help students to understand different cultures.  I liked how she spoke, and when she talked to us, she was very careful to explain how important the way of our study is.  Now I understand how very important the heart is to care about others.  Just like me, I have my beautiful family and friendships to consider. If everyone follows this example, you will feel your close relatives' pains, joys and experiences, and our community will be more beautiful.  At that point, I had a dream to see the sweat lodge, and that would be very nice and wonderful because my dream would come true when the sweet Saturday finally arrived.  I hoped that we would have a fantastic day there. 
After the pleasant trip of one-and-a-half hours, our bus finally arrived at the blessed place near Mama Mary's outdoor “fire place.”  I saw the warm fire which was built by Mama Mary's daughter's wonderful work. Everyone was full of energy to see what we would do in a few minutes. Here she is, I thought, when Mama Mary finally come out with a beautiful dress and a drum. Well, Mr. Van had a horse drum, too. Mama Mary started to use the drum to make music and sing songs.   We followed her. The first song was the peace song. Later, we sang the cultural songs from our own languages, and I sang a song from my own culture (China); it felt like some angels were singing in the quiet back yard of your daughter’s house, and it was beautiful.  After the round of songs, we started to enter the lodge. I helped to carry the heavy rocks to the lodge. After a second, everyone was ready to open their heart to help themselves, their families, and friends. It was unforgettable to think about those lovely friendships coming back, and safety of our families' days, and improving our school days.
Now I feel I am a new me today.  I am writing here, I love this world, this nature, this community; they are wonderful to me, and I am important to them. I hope every day will be just like when I was a free person in the lodge, and this is today. So I really wish everyone can have a chance to feel another culture's beautiful face, then learn new ideas that are good for you and yours. After all, I will say thank you, Mama Mary, thank you Mr. Van, thank you to all my new friends, thank you all. 

Letter from Juan to Mama Mary Sunbeam

Letter from Sitelhila to Mama Mary Sunbeam

Letter from Mauaheb to Mama Mary Sunbeam 2010

Letter from Gloria to Mama Mary Sunbeam 2010

Letter from Betty to Mama Mary Sunbeam

Summary Student Comments - Mama Mary Sunbeam (2010)

2001 program student comments:

·           “I like how she says the truth.  I liked when she taught us the dance.  I liked when she told everybody not to laugh at people."
·          “I liked the dance and their clothes and how they made them.  I also learned how to say “hello” in Cherokee.”
·         “I learned that Native Americans like to tell stories.  And I learned I need to respect others.  And that we are important.”
·         “I learned how to do the hunter’s dance.  I liked the drum.  I never saw one like that before.  It was big and made of animal skin.  I am impressed how Mama Mary looks.”
·         “I like how she played the flute.  I learned how to say some words in Cherokee.”
·         “Everything comes from a circle.  Listen to your parents, teachers, and elders.”
·         “I like how she says the truth.  I liked when she taught us the dance.  I liked when she told everybody not to laugh at people."
·         “One of the things I really liked was when Mary told us about a hero, Mahatma Gandhi, who stopped a war [and got freedom] without fighting.”
·         “I learned how to play the drum.  I learned how to listen and pay attention to older people.”
·         “I learned not to tease people.  It makes them nervous and shy.  I loved the flower with the light.”
·         “I learned sign language, things about nature, respect for other people.  I liked the whole show.”

2002 grant report:

A cross-section of the approximately 100 ESOL and multicultural students at South Lakes High School and eight staff members were treated to an intimate, interactive, and reflective presentation by Mary Sunbeam (“Mama Mary”) of Positive Education, Inc. on March 15, 2002.  The program highlighted Native American culture (especially the importance of oral traditions, language, music, dance, regalia, artifacts, and other treasures).   Other topics included cultural diversity, reverence for Nature, self-esteem, teenage concerns, and the 9-11 tragedy.
Students were directly involved in all aspects of the program:  planning, promotion, setting up instruments and artifacts, assisting Mama Mary, packing up after the program, asking questions, and providing feedback and insight into what they learned from the experience.  More importantly, 20 students also performed during the program, taking on the roles of drummers and dancers.  The pride they felt was clearly evident during the performance and during their written feedback after the show.  Many of the participants were touched in a very personal way, and some expressed a new-found appreciation for indigenous cultures.   Since this program was designed to impact high school students, it seems worthwhile to share some of their written responses to the show [edited slightly for grammar and spelling]:
*                     “I liked the stories Mama Mary told us.  When we were drumming, I learned the feelings and the ideas of the Cherokee tribe.”
*                     “I liked when Mama Mary said you are important; also I liked when she said she knows two languages, just like us.”
*                     “I liked when she talked about dreams because when she talked about that, I felt in my heart a lot of love.”
*                     “One of the best things I learned was how to drum or to sing.  I felt like I am part of the Cherokee nation.”
*                     “Next year when she comes again I will help her because now I know that it is not really hard to participate.”
*                     “I learned that violence is not the solution for fixing problems.”
*                     “It gave us a lot of information about the Native American culture and the religion.”
*                     “I liked that when she said in some cultures people don’t give respect to women, but we need to give women respect even though they belong to different parts of the world.  She also said that sometime we make fun of people by calling them names and that is not fair.”
*                     “My favorite part was when Mama Mary gave Mr. Van Opdorp a blanket; they were sharing a moment of her culture together.”
*                     “I liked performing.  It was a lot of fun.  I learned how to dance and how to say ‘hi’ and other things in Cherokee.  I learned that Native Americans are proud of their culture, we should be proud of ours, and it’s good to encourage other people.”
The presentation coincided with an American history unit on the Westward expansion and the Trail of Tears, and a Spanish class unit on music and musical instruments.  Many students remarked on the similarities they observed between clothing, beadwork, drumming, and dances during the program and those from their home countries, so cross-cultural connections were made.   There was a general sense that being unique or “different” is a worthwhile goal.  In a written survey, 100% of the students also responded that they would like to see a similar program again and more programs like it next year at South Lakes.  They also agreed unanimously that they had learned something new about Native American culture, and they appreciated Cherokee language, spirituality, artwork and craftsmanship more than before the show.   They were also able to see history “come alive,” and could relate contemporary Native American culture to their own experiences as outsiders or newcomers.  For all the foregoing reasons, we hope to host another program with Mama Mary and Positive Education next year.

2003 program comments:

I want to say that I love her and pray for her to have a longer life and successful life…I felt like I have met her before and she reminds of my aunt from Afghanistan. (Mariam, Afghanistan)

I learned how to enjoy myself with people and how to get together with people.  The drum made us happy and your great actions really grabbed my attention. (Chris, Korea)

I liked the way she educated us about her self and her Cherokee culture.  I also learned from Mama Mary that I should educate people about my culture. (Bilal, Sudan)

She told us everybody is equal.  She taught a lesson about life. She also talked about religion and that we should respect every culture.  Thank you, Mama Mary.  We love you! (Sadia, Pakistan)

I learned that she’s a very good woman. She said that everything that we do, we do for a reason.  (Mario, El Salvador)

I learned that there’s not really any THEM, we are really US.  We have to share the love with each other, and every one of us is important. (Oscar, El Salvador).

Character Reference for Mama Mary Sunbeam

To Whom It May Concern:

I have known Mary Arpante (hereafter “Mama Mary”) for the past ten years and have collaborated with her extensively during nine programs at South Lakes High School and South Lakes Transitional High School in Reston, Virginia.  I can attest to Mama Mary’s outstanding character, unwavering honesty, strong sense of personal and community responsibility, and concern for social justice.  Without dignifying any of the absurd accusations lodged by the management of Rite Aid against her, which Mama Mary tearfully shared with me during a recent retreat in Broadway, Virginia, I can state unequivocally that Mama Mary’s morality and work ethic cannot be challenged.  If Mama Mary is being penalized for standing up on behalf of a fellow employee, this injustice must be remedied.

Mama Mary has presented Cherokee cultural programs at my school and in other locations for healing lodges (retreats) for at-risk students, faculty, and friends.  Our efforts have been supported by grants from the Virginia Commission for the Arts, the Met-Life Corporation, the Horace Mann Company, and discretionary funds from the Fairfax County Public Schools.  In all instances, Mama Mary has followed the financial terms of the grants explicitly and documented expenses with detailed invoices which are transparent and clear.  She has always promoted the interests of my students above all.

Our first association with Mary Sunbeam began during a healing ceremony or sweat lodge retreat for nine at-risk young men from South Lakes High School in December 1999.  The goal was to intervene in a special way, and to offer some perspective in the emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual aspects of the lives of each participant, many of whom shared Mary’s indigenous background.  All the participants reported a life-changing experience as a result of their time spent with Mary Sunbeam at the Oasis Lodge in Great Falls, Virginia.  In 2000, Mary Sunbeam took part in the first annual Reston Multicultural Festival.  Many students from South Lakes also participated as either performers or volunteers, and were able to appreciate firsthand Mary’s special gift for dancing and storytelling.  This led inevitably to plans for a program tailored specifically to the needs of language-minority and ESOL children and adults at our school.  We have been very fortunate to host Mama Mary at our school, and have offered similar programs virtually every year since these auspicious early beginnings.
 
Mary Sunbeam's work has been acknowledged by the American Association of Community Colleges with an NVCC Model Program Award. She has also received awards from Virginia, Maryland, Washington, D.C. school systems, and cultural communities.  Positive Education, Inc. and Mary Sunbeam are active in promoting the value of cultures and mutual respect through classroom education, mentoring, and presentations. The motto of Positive Education, Inc. is:  ©YOU ARE IMPORTANT!  That is precisely the message we have conveyed at South Lakes High School and in Reston.  Attached are comments and testimonials I have collected over the years which attest to Mama Mary’s positive contribution to my school and community.  I think student comments speak more eloquently to the positive impact Mama Mary has than I can express.  I have highlighted comments which are particularly relevant to Mama Mary’s employment dispute.  Furthermore, I attest to the authenticity of all of the attached comments, and again affirm that any challenges to Mama Mary’s work performance or financial dealings are unfounded.  I also offer to testify on Mama Mary’s behalf if called on to do so.

Sincerely,



Martin J. Van Opdorp

More Comments 2007 - Mama Mary Sunbeam

We were able to collaborate with the art department this year, and Matt Ravenstahl (a visual arts and IB teacher) was especially helpful in this respect.  After the program he wrote:  “I actually quite enjoyed the experience.  I felt it broke down barriers a bit by kids having to adjust to the awkwardness etc… I thought the message was great, particularly the origins of the hand shake, and the phrase ‘I recognize your ancestors’ really struck a chord with me.  I particularly noticed some of your students looking at me and in a normal context they would look away when I looked back.  However, in this context they would allow eye contact and a smile.  I felt the foundation for trust was laid by me being there and participating.”

Mama Mary’s final theme related to building self-confidence and pride among all of the participants in the room.  Most people left with a smile on their face and a positive attitude as evidenced by some of the comments below:

 I liked everything about Mama Mary.  She was so funny.  I love you, Mama Mary…I also learned one word in her language (Cherokee).  The word is “wado” and that means “thank you.”  (Reham, Sudan)

Mama Mary, this was my first year meeting you, but I had a very great experience. Your Indian tradition and culture is very interesting and I also learned a lot from the experience of you coming to my school. I also think that a lot of the other students also learned about respect by what you taught us. Thank you so much for coming to our school. (Ana, El Salvador)
I liked everything, especially when we sang and played the big drum, and when Mama Mary told the stories…I also learned some words in her language.  (Lorena, El Salvador)

A mí me gustó toda la presentación de Mama Mary, cómo tocar el tambor, escuchar las historias, cantar y cómo ella se viste.  Aprendí lo que es muy bonita, su tradición.  Aprendí a decir hola = “osiyo.”  Nos enseñó a cantar en su idioma.  Todo estuvo bonito. = I liked the whole presentation by Mama Mary, how to play the drum, listen to her stories, to sing and how she dresses.  I learned about what is so beautiful, her tradition.  I learned to say hi = “osiyo.”  She taught us how to sing in her language.  Everything was wonderful.  (Alexia, El Salvador)

I liked when Mama Mary was dancing with the other girls. I liked when the students were playing with the drum. What I learned about American Indians is that they are very peaceful and that they like to tell stories. Mama Mary is very kind and she is very beautiful and their traditions are very important and they believe in every religion. (Yessica, El Salvador)

I liked how Mama Mary teaches her culture. I learned that all of us are equal. (Erick, Honduras)

I learned a special way of saying Hello. (Josephine, Liberia)

The best thing that I liked about Mama Mary is that she is friendly with the students and teachers. On Monday, June 4, 2007 when she came to our school I learned many things from her, like how they dress and what they usually eat. Another thing that I learned is that they sing with drums… (Raquel, Peru)

I learned that every year she transfers her Indian history from one generation to the next... (Yitbarek, Ethiopia)

They are peaceful people, have a special way to say hello, tell stories that teach about peace and love, and show us how not to hate each other. (Nimat, Sudan)

I learned about what it exactly means where we came from, and that we should never forget who we are where we came from (Martín, El Salvador)

I learned that we have to keep our culture.  I liked her because she is a person who gives good advice. (Josué, Bolivia)

I want to say that I love her and pray for her to have a longer life and successful life…I felt like I have met her before and she reminds of my aunt from Afghanistan. (Mariam, Afghanistan)

I learned how to enjoy myself with people and how to get together with people.  The drum made us happy and your great actions really grabbed my attention. (Chris, Korea)

I liked the way she educated us about her self and her Cherokee culture.  I also learned from Mama Mary that I should educate people about my culture. (Bilal, Sudan)

She told us everybody is equal.  She taught a lesson about life. She also talked about religion and that we should respect every culture.  Thank you, Mama Mary.  We love you! (Sadia, Pakistan)

I learned that she’s a very good woman. She said that everything that we do, we do for a reason.  (Mario, El Salvador)

I learned that there’s not really any THEM, we are really US.  We have to share the love with each other, and every one of us is important. (Oscar, El Salvador)

Summary Report 2007 - Mama Mary Sunbeam's Visit

To be able to really listen, one should abandon or put aside all prejudices... When you are in a receptive state of mind, things can be easily understood... But unfortunately, most of us listen through a screen of resistance.  We are screened with prejudices, whether religious or spiritual, psychological or scientific; or with daily worries, desires, and fears.  And with these fears for a screen, we listen.  Therefore we listen really to our own noise, our own sound, not to what is being said.  (Jiddhu Krishnamurti, The First and Last Freedom)

Mama Mary Sunbeam visited South Lakes High School on Monday, June 4, 2007.  We were thrilled to welcome her back to our school.  Mama Mary helped us to overcome “our own internal noise” for a few hours, to put aside our worries, to focus on the positive, and to step outside ourselves to appreciate the solid progress we have made together throughout the year.  In the long term, our goal has been to “hook” our struggling students and redirect them to active learning, ultimately making them more likely to participate and be more successful in summer school or next year.  Another goal has been to build bridges between my students, who often feel culturally marginalized, and more mainstream students.  My students always treasure the time they spend with Mama Mary, and if it convinces a few more of them to stick with their education and graduate in spite of the many obstacles they face, her visits have certainly been worthwhile.

The benefits of Mama Mary’s presentation are at least threefold.  These benefits relate to English skills practice, increased cultural awareness and bridge building, and greater self-esteem for many of my struggling English language learners, especially when they were brought together with a mainstream art class to share the experience on equal ground. 

First of all, my ESOL students benefited greatly in terms of language practice.  The presentations were a sustained exercise in active listening.  My students all wrote questions in advance of Mama Mary’s visit and also short reflections afterward to reflect on the time they spent with her.  Some of their comments are excerpted below.  For one group, we were able to first present the program in a bilingual setting (English-Spanish translation) facilitated by more proficient Spanish-speaking students.  This first group later heard many of the same stories or songs in English only.  They were better able to understand the stories with this extra support. In my ESOL classes, our social studies/cultural focus recently has been on American Indians, storytelling, Sacagawea and the Lewis and Clark expedition, and contemporary American Indian life (especially the movie Smoke Signals).  During Mama Mary’s visit, my students also sang, drummed, danced and repeated songs or chants chorally.  This engaged many of their senses and a variety of learning styles.  Students also saw four of their teachers and their principal take part in the drumming ceremony, allowing us to appreciate this great communal experience together.

Secondly, it was great to focus on key ideas such as our common humanity (i.e., “we are one human race; we all have a belly button and a mother; all religions have the same objective to promote love and compassion for one another”).  Mama Mary explored broad cultural issues such as genocide, poverty, war, and gender issues, and touched on high school-specific issues such as the maltreatment of nerds, bullying, and teen pregnancy as well.  Mary tried to dispel stereotypes about American Indians (e.g., “Are you a real American Indian?), but also drew connections between her own experience in as an “outsider” within the larger American culture and that of immigrants as cultural outsiders.  She also related to the American students by challenging assumptions about all individuals and groups in high school.  Mama Mary’s overriding message, also a mission for our school, is to respect one another.

Mama Mary’s final theme related to building self-confidence and pride among all of the participants in the room.  Most people left with a smile on their face and a positive attitude as evidenced by some of the comments below:

I liked everything, especially when we sang and played the big drum, and when Mama Mary told the stories…I also learned some words in her language.  (Lorena, El Salvador)

 I liked everything about Mama Mary.  She was so funny.  I love you, Mama Mary…I also learned one word in her language (Cherokee).  The word is “wado” and that means “thank you.”  (Reham, Sudan)

A mí me gustó toda la presentación de Mama Mary, cómo tocar el tambor, escuchar las historias, cantar y cómo ella se viste.  Aprendí lo que es muy bonita, su tradición.  Aprendí a decir hola = “osiyo.”  Nos enseñó a cantar en su idioma.  Todo estuvo bonito. = I liked the whole presentation by Mama Mary, how to play the drum, listen to her stories, to sing and how she dresses.  I learned about what is so beautiful, her tradition.  I learned to say hi = “osiyo.”  She taught us how to sing in her language.  Everything was wonderful.  (Alexia, El Salvador)

Letter from Students to Mama Mary 2007

Positive Education, Inc.
c/o Mama Mary Sunbeam
4321 32nd Rd., South
Arlington, VA 22206


Dear Mary Mary,

We are the students at South Lakes High School who made the “WELCOME MAMA MARY!” sign. 
Yessica:
I liked when Mama Mary was dancing with the other girls. I liked when the students were playing with the drum. What I learn about American Indian is that they are very peaceful and that they like to tell stories. Mama Mary is very kind and she is very beautiful and there traditions are very important and they believe in every religion.
Erick:
I liked how Mama Mary teaches her culture. I learned that all of us are equal.
Josephine:
I learned a special way of saying Hello.
Diana:
The best thing that I liked about Mama Mary is that she is friendly with the students and teachers. On Monday, June 4, 2007 when she came to our school I learned many things from her like how they dress and what they usually eat. Another thing that I learned is that they sing with drums. Also I liked how she was dress with her hair with braids.
Yitbarek:
I learned that every year she transfers her Indian history the other generation and by the time other country covers up Indian village and they live reservation.
Nimat:
They are peaceful people, have a special way to say hello, stories tell about peace and love, and show us how not to hate each other.
Ana Q:
Mama Mary this was my first year meeting you, but I had a very great experience. Your Indian tradition and culture is very interesting and I also learned a lot from the experience of you coming to my school. I also think that a lot of the other students also learn about respect by what you teach to us. Thank you so much for coming to our school.

Your friends,
.... 

Student Comments About Mama Mary Sunbeam 2006

When Mama Mary came here, I learned much about her.  First, she is a special and humble woman.  She taught me that when we have a problem we have to solve them. We should not try to escape from the problem.  Second, I learned an important thing, that “if I want to do something, I will do it.” Then Mama Mary taught me not to be scared of life or afraid of my problems. I thought we have to be strong and be able to resolve something in the struggle of our life. The most important thing is “you are important”, and she gave the reasons why we are important.  In this world we always have a mission, to do the most important thing, and we are special always.  (AC)

About this show I learned more about different cultures.  In general I learned new things about Native American culture. Also I learned that I like the part when Mama Mary said the meaning of her.  Mary tells about your culture and the importance of love to the world to all human beings.  (DG)

I did learn something about Mama Mary.  First she is the greatest person I have ever seen before and the thing I learned from her is she kept saying everybody is really somebody and that’s true for me.  Some people look at the color of the person and they act as if they are better than that person, because of a special color, especially Spanish people.  I loved when Mama Mary said that and all the Latinos were there to listen.  So anyway Mama Mary is a great person.  (LJ)

Observation of Mama Mary Sunbeam Class at South Lakes

OBSERVATION RECORD
Observation of Spirit Bear’s class with Mama Mary Sunbeam

Date:  3/15/02                         Period:  7                     ESOL Level:  B1 and A


Lesson observed:        Presentation by Mama Mary, Cherokee lecturer and performer

                                                (arranged by Marty)

Essential question:      What can students learn about the Cherokee culture and themselves through listening to a lecture, viewing a performance, and interacting with classmates?

The following were addressed:

Standards:     POS 2 – Understand variety and range of communication forms and strategies
                        POS 3 -  Apply techniques of effective communication in writing and speaking

Benchmarks:

·         Students listen and view for specific purposes.

  • Students use speaking strategies to support viewing and listening processes.
  • Students make use of responses for a variety of purposes.
Indicators:
  • Students listened to instructions on how to perform and work collaboratively as a team.
  • Students used speaking strategies to quickly rehearse roles and decide on leaders.
  • Students listened for the purpose of each activity, which included the intellectual side of each activity. (What does the drum beat in unison mean?)
  • Students expressed and supported opinions in writing in the form of a presentation feedback form.


The activity began with students assisting Mama Mary with transporting all of her props (clothes, instruments, blankets, wall hangings) to the Large Lecture Hall.  Roles for the students had been assigned by Marty beforehand, so everyone seemed to know what he or she was responsible for.  This made for a very smooth and organized start. 

As the props arrived, Mama Mary began to verbally instruct the students about their jobs.  She also visually demonstrated movement and instrument playing.  The students then had to practice among themselves.  This collaboration required much spontaneous conversation and negotiation.  Meanwhile, Marty was coordinating the other students and arriving audience members.  The room was nearly full with the audience.  Students were very animated and enthusiastic in sharing their ideas for performing, their obvious enthrallment with the props, and their picture taking.

The actual performance began with Marty presenting Mama Mary and her background. In doing so, he expressed his respect and admiration for her which obviously carried over to the students and audience.   Immediately after, Mama Mary gave Marty a token of her fondness:  a beautiful hand woven blanket. 

The presentation included a lecture by Mama Mary which was very comprehensible to the students but not simplified.  It included a lot of visuals, which also helped in comprehension.  Students performed instrument playing and dancing.  Mama Mary sang and chanted.  Before each performance, Mama Mary explained its history and significance.  She also had the audience interact with physical movement and singing/chanting.

I know this all connected to Marty’s curriculum, as he has done much in his class on Native Americans.  It just happened to connect with my A level curriculum at the moment.  We are doing regions of the world.  That week we had just read and discussed Eskimo culture.  Because of this, many of the props, vocabulary, and explanations were familiar to the A students.  About 1/3 of the A level ESOL students attended.

After the performance (homework or in class later?), Marty had the students complete an opinion sheet that gave the students an opportunity to express their opinion of the presentation in writing.

This class was a great opportunity for students to learn about and appreciate a different culture and to apply their communication skills in speaking, listening, and writing. Almost all students were very engaged and it was evident that they thought it was a valuable learning experience.   I know they were short on time, but a question and answer session might be planned the next time. 

Mama Mary Sunbeam - Report After 2002 Visit

A cross-section of the approximately 100 ESOL and multicultural students at South Lakes High School and eight staff members were treated to an intimate, interactive, and reflective presentation by Mary Sunbeam (“Mama Mary”) of Positive Education, Inc. on March 15, 2002.  The program highlighted Native American culture (especially the importance of oral traditions, language, music, dance, regalia, artifacts, and other treasures).   Other topics included cultural diversity, reverence for Nature, self-esteem, teenage concerns, and the 9-11 tragedy.
Students were directly involved in all aspects of the program:  planning, promotion, setting up instruments and artifacts, assisting Mama Mary, packing up after the program, asking questions, and providing feedback and insight into what they learned from the experience.  More importantly, 20 students also performed during the program, taking on the roles of drummers and dancers.  The pride they felt was clearly evident during the performance and during their written feedback after the show.  Many of the participants were touched in a very personal way, and some expressed a new-found appreciation for indigenous cultures.   Since this program was designed to impact high school students, it seems worthwhile to share some of their written responses to the show [edited slightly for grammar and spelling]:
· “I liked the stories Mama Mary told us.  When we were drumming, I learned the feelings and the ideas of the Cherokee tribe.”
· “I liked when Mama Mary said you are important; also I liked when she said she knows two languages, just like us.”
· “I liked when she talked about dreams because when she talked about that, I felt in my heart a lot of love.”
· “One of the best things I learned was how to drum or to sing.  I felt like I am part of the Cherokee nation.”
· “Next year when she comes again I will help her because now I know that it is not really hard to participate.”
· “I learned that violence is not the solution for fixing problems.”
· “It gave us a lot of information about the Native American culture and the religion.”
· “I liked that when she said in some cultures people don’t give respect to women, but we need to give women respect even though they belong to different parts of the world.  She also said that sometime we make fun of people by calling them names and that is not fair.”
· “My favorite part was when Mama Mary gave Mr. Van Opdorp a blanket; they were sharing a moment of her culture together.”
· “I liked performing.  It was a lot of fun.  I learned how to dance and how to say ‘hi’ and other things in Cherokee.  I learned that Native Americans are proud of their culture, we should be proud of ours, and it’s good to encourage other people.”
The presentation coincided with an American history unit on the Westward expansion and the Trail of Tears, and a Spanish class unit on music and musical instruments.  Many students remarked on the similarities they observed between clothing, beadwork, drumming, and dances during the program and those from their home countries, so cross-cultural connections were made.   There was a general sense that being unique or “different” is a worthwhile goal.  In a written survey, 100% of the students also responded that they would like to see a similar program again and more programs like it next year at South Lakes.  They also agreed unanimously that they had learned something new about Native American culture, and they appreciated Cherokee language, spirituality, artwork and craftsmanship more than before the show.   They were also able to see history “come alive,” and could relate contemporary Native American culture to their own experiences as outsiders or newcomers.  For all the foregoing reasons, we hope to host another program with Mama Mary and Positive Education next year.

Mama Mary Sunbeam - Report After Visit to Our School in 2001

A cross-section of the approximately 110 ESL students at South Lakes High School and members of the South Lakes International Club for Education/Entertainment (or SLICE ) were treated to an intimate, interactive, and reflective presentation by Mary Sunbeam ("Mama Mary") of Positive Education, Inc. on May 3, 2001.  The program highlighted Native American culture (especially the importance of oral traditions, language, music, dance, regalia, artifacts, and other treasures).   Other topics included cultural diversity, reverence for Nature, self-esteem, teenage concerns, and personal empowerment.  Students were directly involved in all aspects of the program:  planning, promotion, setting up instruments and artifacts, assisting Mama Mary, packing up after the program, asking questions, and providing feedback and insight into what they learned from the experience. 
More importantly, 17 students also performed during the program, taking on the roles of drummer, dancer or storyteller, respectively.  The pride they felt was clearly evident during the performance and during their written feedback after the show.  Many of the participants were touched in a very personal way, and some expressed a new-found appreciation for indigenous cultures.   Since this program was designed to impact high school students, it seems worthwhile to share some of their written responses to the show [edited slightly for grammar and spelling]:
·         “I liked the dance and their clothes and how they made them.  I also learned how to say "hello" in Cherokee.”
·         “I learned that Native Americans like to tell stories.  And I learned I need to respect others.  And that we are important.”
·         “I learned how to do the hunter’s dance.  I liked the drum.  I never saw one like that before.  It was big and made of animal skin.  I am impressed how Mama Mary looks.”
·         “I like how she played the flute.  I learned how to say some words in Cherokee.”
·         “Everything comes from a circle.  Listen to your parents, teachers, and elders.”
·         “I like how she says the truth.  I liked when she taught us the dance.  I liked when she told everybody not to laugh at people."
·         “One of the things I really liked was when Mary told us about a hero, Mahatma Gandhi, who stopped a war [and got freedom] without fighting.”
·         “I learned how to play the drum.  I learned how to listen and pay attention to older people.”
·         “I learned not to tease people.  It makes them nervous and shy.  I loved the flower with the light.”
·         “I learned sign language, things about nature, respect for other people.  I liked the whole show.”
The presentation took place approximately one month after our school-wide multicultural festival on March 30.  Many students remarked on the similarities they observed between the clothing, beadwork, drumming, and dances from the Cherokee culture and those from their home countries, so cross-cultural connections were made.   There was a general sense that being unique or "different" is a worthwhile goal.  In a written survey, 100% of the students also responded that they would like to see a similar program again and more programs like it next year at South Lakes.  They also agreed unanimously that they had learned something new about Native American culture, and that they appreciated Cherokee art work and craftsmanship more than before the show.   They were also able to see history "come alive," and could relate contemporary Native American culture to their own experiences as outsiders or newcomers.  For all the foregoing reasons, we hope to host another program with Mama Mary and Positive Education, Inc. next year.